Ill Never Get to See Her Again

Over the new year, me and 7 mates (all lads) stayed in pontins for three nights. Yes pontins, chav central etc. But we're not chavs and it was a good laugh - boys will be boys etc!

We're 17-19 - I'm 17. We're all pretty good looking and I suppose we're abit on the immature side, but I'm the gentleman of the pack!

However, I got speaking to a lovely girl on new years eve, and ended up drinking and spending pretty much most of the night with her. She was amazing, funny, good looking, great personality, lovely family etc. So when the night was over, we came to an agreement of meeting up the following night in the bar etc. She had to go because her family were going, and prior to that I was working my charm well and jokingly said something like "haha, so yeah, if i'm lucky do i get a kiss then?" And she smiled, winked and said "maybe".

As lads do, we got back to the chalet in all hyped up moods, as throughout the night, we sorta split up and went our seperate ways around the bar etc. So when we got back to the room, we all just had a massive talk about how their night went (with cans in our hands like) - and when I got to bed that night, around 5am, I genuinely couldn't sleep because I was thinking about her.

So the following night, I got round to meeting up with her again. Had a little dance etc, and then she introduced me to her family and parents' table. And her mum told her that she thought I was a lovely lad and I came accross very well, and that they'd love to see me again sometime. And when the end of the night came, they had to go, and she waited for abit for her family to go, so that, erm you know, we could have the 'final words'. We kissed.

I really really miss her, and to think it was only last night just makes me pretty depressed to be honest.

So the main message in this thread is: How do you get over someone you've really got to know and like alot, when you just know you're never gonna see them again?

I suppose that she doesn't live that far, but we have to be realistic I suppose.

Why do you not see her again? Still missed that point in this story.

Well you'll never see her again... so that's a start.

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A few days on holiday can feel like a long time at the time, but give it a few months and you'll realise it's hardly anything. I've found similar things with romances at music festivals where it feels like you really know them after spending 24/7 with them for 3 or 4 days, but when you get home and haven't spoken for a while they become strangers again. Your life goes on, her life goes on, it was nice while it lasted. There's nothing really to get over once the real world kicks in again.

why didn't u get her number?

did you get her number? if not, fool!
sounds like you maybe really clicked with her, can't you find her on facebook?

You didn't get her number? E-mail? Anything at all? You sir are a fool.

(Original post by Anonymous)
Over the new year, me and 7 mates (all lads) stayed in pontins for three nights. Yes pontins, chav central etc. But we're not chavs and it was a good laugh - boys will be boys etc!

We're 17-19 - I'm 17. We're all pretty good looking and I suppose we're abit on the immature side, but I'm the gentleman of the pack!

However, I got speaking to a lovely girl on new years eve, and ended up drinking and spending pretty much most of the night with her. She was amazing, funny, good looking, great personality, lovely family etc. So when the night was over, we came to an agreement of meeting up the following night in the bar etc. She had to go because her family were going, and prior to that I was working my charm well and jokingly said something like "haha, so yeah, if i'm lucky do i get a kiss then?" And she smiled, winked and said "maybe".

As lads do, we got back to the chalet in all hyped up moods, as throughout the night, we sorta split up and went our seperate ways around the bar etc. So when we got back to the room, we all just had a massive talk about how their night went (with cans in our hands like) - and when I got to bed that night, around 5am, I genuinely couldn't sleep because I was thinking about her.

So the following night, I got round to meeting up with her again. Had a little dance etc, and then she introduced me to her family and parents' table. And her mum told her that she thought I was a lovely lad and I came accross very well, and that they'd love to see me again sometime. And when the end of the night came, they had to go, and she waited for abit for her family to go, so that, erm you know, we could have the 'final words'. We kissed.

I really really miss her, and to think it was only last night just makes me pretty depressed to be honest.

So the main message in this thread is: How do you get over someone you've really got to know and like alot, when you just know you're never gonna see them again?

I suppose that she doesn't live that far, but we have to be realistic I suppose.

you must be a idiot for forgetting to ask him for her number? if you got her number then stay in contact, meet up more often

if she doesn't live that far surely you could arrange to meet again?

(Original post by Mally-xo)
did you get her number? if not, fool!
sounds like you maybe really clicked with her, can't you find her on facebook?

Yeah I got her number and facebook etc..

But it's not the same if you know what I mean

Something happened to me on NYE.

Except I have her number.

Just do it for the ego boost and recognition from the lads really.

huh when i read the title, kinda thought it would be worse than this?? she obviously likes you too, and theres suggestion of further meet up, so why dont u just facebook her? how far away is she (never heard of pontins!)?? Long distance relationship, if you think shes worth it...

I have 2 replies to this:

1) Man the **** up it's only one girl there is plenty more.

2) Facebook.

Why can't you see her again? Was it:
A) Because she tragically died in a freak accident where a pigeon flew into a car window causing them to swerve, hit a lamppost which hit a dog which ran into the girl who smashed her head through glass window, shards of which then fell into her neck and practically decapitated her.
B) Contact details you got off her were stolen by one of your mates who proceeded to vom all over them and then flushed them down the toilet making them impossible to receive, and you never gave her yours so you can't get in contact.
C) You're a lazy arse who can't be bothered?

(Original post by Anonymous)
Yeah I got her number and facebook etc..

But it's not the same if you know what I mean

why not? if you really cared about it that much, you'd drop her a text asking to meet up.
or does she live REALLY far away or something?

(Original post by Anonymous)

I really really miss her , and to think it was only last night just makes me pretty depressed to be honest.

So the main message in this thread is: How do you get over someone you've really got to know and like alot, when you just know you're never gonna see them again?

I suppose that she doesn't live that far , but we have to be realistic I suppose.

If you're all soppy and 'oh I really miss her my life's ruined she's gone '
just go and arrange a date or something with her.

Why do people do that..

Show their apparent love and devotion for 'the most beautiful girl' then put obstacles in the way such as distance.

You even said yourself, she doesn't live that far.
You're 17, learn to drive and it'll be all good.
I say go for it if you want her that bad.

Well, to get over her in the literal sense would mean you have to be close.

Well if you've got her fb and number... meet up with her?

There is no reason for this to be posted anonymously, it's not embarrassing or a secret. This, along with all his uses of the word lad leads me to believe this is a troll.

(Original post by Mally-xo)
why not? if you really cared about it that much, you'd drop her a text asking to meet up.
or does she live REALLY far away or something?

The thing is, I don't want to constantly text her all the time, as it might seem like I'm some annoying idiot. Likewise on facebook.

But yeah, a similar thing has happened to me in the past when I was younger, and I did go on to get over that but I felt so emotionally down.

What makes me laugh is one of the lads I was with is in a similar sort of situation and we can only help but laugh at eachother!

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